By: SEYI The Motivator | Filed Under: Motivations on relationship. |
1.Not saying what you mean.
Men aren’t very good mind readers. In fact, we often have difficulty just figuring out what women mean with the words they speak.
2.They don’t respect privacy.
If for example your man's cell phone doesn’t have a password or the wallet is in plain and you probably end up looking through them, your man will actually know that and it bothers them a lot. There should be enough trust in your relationship that you don't feel like you have to prove your man's honesty by secretly looking through his phone.
3.Bringing up the past.
Don’t bring up past problems and mix them with current ones, or the problems will only get bigger. Recalling the date, hour and minute of everything that has ever bothered her in the relationship definitely puts a damper on the man’s mood.
4.Talking about intimacy with their friends.
It’s OK to share certain concerns with trusted friends or family members, but you should be very selective with who you’re sharing this sensitive information with. Keep intimacy intimate and respect your lover because many men do not want you talking about this to anyone but him.
5.Hating to admit they are wrong.
Ladies can make huge messes, but they don’t love to admit when it’s their fault. Men hate it when women can’t admit to being wrong and apologizing. You should at least as a lady find some middle ground and admit your faults.
6.Constantly complaining.
No one likes to hear someone who complains all the time, especially your man. Women are sometimes specialists in seeing the negative, but instead, try focusing on the positive as much as possible.
7.Using intimacy as a threat or reward.
Men despise it when their girlfriends use their feminine charm to get what we want. For a happy and healthy relationship, it’s important to remember to be straightforward about what we want.
8.Jokingly flirting with other men.
Jokes are good, but they can sometimes hurt. Romance plays a huge role in every relationship. If it lacks in one relationship, it should also require outside of the relationship. A guy would just say that his girlfriend is “cool,” that she’s casual and herself around other men, but that does hurt them a little inside because of the “possessive” element. It’s the way they talk to other men, guys notice it but quietly get hurt by it because they don’t want to sound like they’re narrow-minded. Still, they’re just possessive because they love you, they want you to be that way with them and them alone.
9.Being super clingy.
Private space is significant for every relationship because it keeps people sane, you may love them more than anything in the world, but you still want to remember who you are at the end of the day, we all need our own time where no one else is allowed.Guys hate it when their girlfriends don’t give them enough personal space; everyone needs room to breathe on their haven and don’t want someone always watching their every move.
10.Having too many guy friends.
I’m going to say this very. This is very natural; it goes both ways also. It’s annoying for girls when their boyfriends have too many girlfriends, the same way it annoys guys when their girlfriends have too many guy friends. People who think this is “narrow-minded” are either too scared to admit it or aren’t in a real relationship, it just naturally hurts and sometimes a lot more than usual, this isn’t about trust.
11.Not understanding that your man needs some time alone.
This often expresses itself with regard to hobbies. Say a man likes to play golf and has played for years. Many a man has gotten into a relationship only to have the woman complain about the time he spends playing golf.
12.They like to control a man's life.
Though ladies do it with the best intentions, but the truth is that their men are human beings, not pets and thus, they don't like to be controlled. So as a lady you should try to be a little more lenient.
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